Lucy O'Connor Coaching
Personal training and mindset coaching combined
Dream formulation &
step by step execution plan
Ongoing support & encouragement to reach your heart's greatest desires
Emotional mastery is the ability to exercise control over your emotional state without letting your emotions overwhelm or affect you and your life.
There are 3 aspects of life none of us can change;
Pain, Uncertainty and Constant Work.
Developing a mental toughness gives you the ability to play the game of life with prowess, elegance and pride.
One-on-One Coaching
ONLINE OR FACE TO FACE LONDON/SURREY incl INTERNATIONAL POA * Dependant on Availability
Having low self-esteem, non-clinical anxiety and low moods can feel painful and confusing. It can influence almost every decision you make.
"I didn't speak up because I didn't want to start an argument or rock the boat"
"Everytime something goes well, I always screw it up and sabotage it"
"I stayed too long with my disrespectful ex because I didn't want to be alone."
"I put everyone else as a priority as their needs are more important than my own"
"I really want the promotion at work but they probably won't want me or even if they do, I'll just mess it up"
"I always start things but I give up so easily"
"I always F*ck things up, things always start out okay but then they always go wrong"
"I am not good enough for XYZ" ... The list goes on..
These thoughts alter our decisions. Our current reality is usually a reflection of each micro-decision we have made up to this point. We can end up in a dead-end job we hate, an insufferable relationship, a headspace of turmoil, disappointment and grief and a life not well-lived.
Many people turn to Google for guidance and help. A lot of information online is CONFUSING. One expert recommends this, another that, one commits to what could be described as a cult and another swears that going gluten-free transformed their life. Reading literature IS helpful but it will never be able to replace real-life help targeted specifically to you, your life, the challenges you face and the dreams you want to so desperately realise.
The Coaching Structure
"At its core, the coaching process is a strategic dialogue between the coach and client where ideas are reflected on and goals are set. The coach becomes an ally, a counsellor and an accountability partner. As your coach it is my task to relentlessly pursue the version of you that you wish to be and see."
Mindset coaching treats the individual as a whole, rather than the focus being upon one area of life. Oftentimes, if one area of our lives isn't strong, it can have rippling effects into all other areas of our lives too. Adopting a helpful mindset is paramount to change. We can become so accustomed to our thinking habits and patterns that adopting another way can seem impossible.
By using a combination of techniques such as visualisation, manifestation practises, confidence role-playing, mindfulness, cognitive, behavioural activation and hypnosis we will explore what is holding you back alongside building up a clear vision of where you want to be and executing a step-by-step plan with how to get there.
I will be there with you every step of the way.
What is expected from you:
1.Show up (On-time!)
2.Commit to the process
3.Adopt an open-mind
Most
I offer 6 weeks, 3 months and 6 months coaching packages.
To book click below to start your journey with a free 25min Chemistry Call.
This group is for women who want to 'win' in playing the game of life. Women who want to be respected and admired for their strength, their femininity, realise their potential, own their power - flaws and ALL.
This is a space where all your 'weird' and wonderful emotion, your quirks, your ideas, your plans will be dreamed and realised. A space to gain emotional stability, master your triggers, gain community support and discover tools to be able to play full throttle in all of life's fun and messiness.
An unstoppable woman stops at nothing to get what she wants. Setbacks are revisions.
Allow the group to re-hydrate your mind, polish that beautiful face and pep-talk you ready to get back into the ring of life.
“Lucy is like your best friend, therapist and personal cheerleader all rolled into one."
Sophie, 34
“Thank you so much for all that you've done for me! You normalised pretty much all of the things about me that I thought were 'weird' or 'wrong', and that just feels like the best gift ever. I am forever grateful.”
Hope, 22
“Lucy is non-judgement and caring and has taught me so much about myself that I didn't even know after 37yrs! She has a magic of pulling out answers that we already have inside but don't know how to access. It has been a joy mixed in with some tears, tough conversations, 100% support and a giggle along the way.”
Rachel, 37
“Having worked with Lucy for a couple of years now, I can attest to her expertise in harnessing any anxiety or worries I have and turning them into positive goals, that leave me feeling emotionally hydrated and able to embrace life head on. ”
Jess, 38